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Seeing friends only at social events is a bad equilibrium

mostly meeting friends at social things" is a bad equilibrium - you're always in the state of "kind of saw each other recently" which is technically true, but rarely affords for you to get to know each other better.

Maybe ok for maintenance, (not really sure if sufficient by itself, but can be a component) but doesn't work for building/developing

On the other hand if you only interact with the person it can sometimes become "stale" (though arguably it's a reflection of my conversation/interactions skills to a large degree).